Human Rights activists in Nandi County are urging men in the county to come forward and report cases of Gender-Based Violence (GBV), saying many are suffering in silence.
In a televised interview on December 3, the activists stated that a significant number of men in the county experienced violence at home but chose not to report it due to culture, traditions, and fear of public shame.
The activists noted that although GBV against men is increasing, most cases remain hidden because the local cultural environment discourages men from speaking out.
Additionally, the men feared peer-mocking or judgment if they admitted to being mistreated by their wives.
“Men getting beaten by their wives at home is a common occurrence, and I commend those who sought help from our facility,” said Abigael Tanui, one of the human rights advocates leading the awareness campaign.
Tanui added that she encouraged male victims who visited the facility, reminding them that seeking help is an important and courageous step.
Meanwhile, counselor Rabbibah Kilelel alleged male victims often develop emotional and mental health challenges because of remaining silent for too long.
Rabbibah warned that without proper treatment and counseling, the mental toll on victims would worsen over time, affecting their overall health.
She explained that the psychological pressure the male victims endured left many of them feeling isolated, distressed, and unable to cope.
According to the counselor, some men turned to harmful coping mechanisms such as alcohol and substance abuse to escape the emotional strain.
She noted that in some cases, these unhealthy coping strategies predisposed victims to become perpetrators themselves, creating a cycle of violence.
The activists urged local leaders, health workers, and the community to support male victims and help break the silence around GBV in Nandi County.
